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Big or Small, Rejection Affects Us All Rejection doesn't have to be about the big stuff like not getting into your top college, not making the team, or not getting asked to prom.

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But it's impossible to avoid it altogether. In fact, you don't want to: People who become too afraid of rejection might hold back from going after something they want. How to Cope The better we get at dealing with rejection, the less it affects us.

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So how can you build that ability to cope? Here are some ideas: Be Honest Coping well with rejection involves working with two things: how you feel and what you think.

Let's start with feelings: If you get rejected, acknowledge it to. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful.

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Or just a little? Cry if you want to — it's a natural way to release emotion. Now, move on to name what you're feeling. For example: "I feel really disappointed that I didn't get chosen for the school play. I wanted it so badly, and I tried so hard.

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I feel left out because my friends made it and I didn't. Pick someone who will listen and be supportive. Telling someone else can help for two reasons: It can be reassuring to know that someone understands what you're going through and how it feels. It forces you to put your feelings into words.

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Be Positive When you're dealing with a Charlotte North Carolina guy home alone tonight emotion like rejection, it's easy to get caught up in the bad feeling. But dwelling on the negative stuff can feel like living the experience over and over.

Not only does it keep hurting, it becomes harder to get past the rejection.

So admit how you feel but don't dwell on it. Avoid talking or thinking about it nonstop. Negative thinking influences our expectations and how we act. Cheating housewife Romulus stuck in a negative outlook might even bring about more rejection. It certainly doesn't inspire a person to try.

Examine Your Thought Soundtrack Now on to what you think: Consider how you're explaining the rejection to. Are you being too hard on yourself? It's natural to wonder, "Why did this happen?

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Tell yourself: "I got turned down for prom because the person didn't want to go with me. They're imagining a reason, reading too much into a situation. If put-down thoughts like these start creeping into your mind, shut them.

Self-blaming or put-down thinking can exaggerate our faults and lead Sweet housewives seeking casual sex Windsor to believe stuff about ourselves that simply isn't true. This kind of thinking crowds out hope and a belief in ourselves — the very things we need to get past feeling bad and want to try. If you start blaming yourself for the rejection or put yourself down, you can start believing you'll always be rejected.

Thoughts like, "I'll never get a date" or "No one will ever like me" amplify a simple rejection to disaster level. Rejection can hurt a lot and can be terribly disappointing, but it's not the end of the world. Maybe next time, I'll get a 'yes'" or "Oh.

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This is what happened. I don't like it. It's not how I wanted things to work. But everyone gets rejected — and I can try.

Remember times when you've been accepted, when you made the cut, when someone told you "yes. Give yourself credit for trying.

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You took a risk — good for you. Remind yourself that you can handle the rejection.

Even though you were turned down now, there will be another opportunity, another time. Get philosophical: Sometimes things happen for reasons we don't always understand.

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It's OK to think about whether there's room for improvement or if your goals were higher than your skills. If your skills weren't strong enough this time, maybe you need to work on your game, your studies, your interview technique, or whatever it takes to improve your chances of getting accepted U wanna party and play around time.

Use the rejection as an opportunity for self-improvement. Sometimes a rejection is a harsh reality check. But if you approach it right, it could help nudge you in a direction that turns out to be the perfect fit for your talents, personality, and all the really great things that make you who you are. More on this topic for: Teens.